How many times have you gotten better at something “hard” and as you progressed your perspective about it changed? I think we often choose to make things more difficult or complex than necessary. If we can temper our ego and alter our perspective, we can experience far less tension when accepting the things that are “hard”.
Read MoreYou don’t need to worry about competition. You can create your own lane, because “best” is subjective. Best depends on what a person can get, right now, based on what they believe and what they know.
Read MoreThere are some scenarios where we made someone upset because we were trying to help and want to make things better for them. Then you realize this isn’t what they are looking for, some people don’t want to be helped.
Read MoreTime is precious, find out what you’re really seeking. Gain clarity, explore, become decisive, re-purpose energy and resources, and move closer towards things that make you excited to live your life.
Read MoreIn a study about habits and goal setting, one group was given a simple temptation and told to say, in the face of that temptation, “I can’t do (that).” The other group was told to say, “I don’t do (that).” Not only was “I can’t” less effective than “I don’t”; “I can’t” was less effective than using no strategy at all.
Read MoreWhen it comes to your family, friends, colleagues, or anyone else that you personally know, we would think that giving advice is an amiable way to show that we care and love them, but this isn't the case most of the time.
Read MoreComparing is when we look at two things and see how they are alike. Contrasting is when we look at two things and see how they are different. Consider the following, comparing can draw us in, contrasting can help sift things apart. There is a time and place for both, and no reason to be bitter about either.
Read MoreWhich type of people do you admire? From the quick selection of people that just occurred in your head, what made them so admirable? Did they succumb to their vices or did they exhibit values that helped others selflessly? Did they let laziness overcome them?vDid they take the right actions to fight for what they believed was right?
Read MoreIn order to feed the flame inside of us we need to bring our attention to what is important for us. Many of our conscious thoughts are aligned with our deepest desire and goals, but this gets buried from the unconscious habit that we keep repeating from the past.
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